Sex, couples and body-oriented therapy in Berlin, in English

Relationships
need
awareness.

What weighs on you deserves to be understood – in body and mind. I work with you as a couples, sex and body-oriented therapist in Berlin when your relationship and your desire are no longer what you would like them to be. On your own or together.

Write to me. I usually reply within 24 hours and suggest a time for an initial session.

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Wiebke Bergermann sitting relaxed in an armchair in her practice

What brings people to me

Your concern isn’t listed? Write to me anyway.

How I work

Desire begins where performance ends.

Sex therapy

When desire is missing, there are reasons. We look for them together. Here you talk about what usually stays unsaid – on your own or as a couple.

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Many conversations go round in circles because we don't say what we really mean.

Couples therapy

Arguments that go round in circles usually follow a pattern. We look at what lies underneath and what you both need. You can also come alone.

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Feeling, not functioning.

Body-oriented therapy

Your head understood long ago, and still nothing moves? Through breath and movement we look for another way in and connect it with talking.

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Wiebke Bergermann sitting in her practice room in Neukölln

“As a sex therapist, what I know doesn’t only come from books.”

There was a time when I believed I had lost my desire. The way back was not easy. It showed me that closeness and sexuality begin with the relationship I have with myself.

Wiebke

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What clients write

“Thank you so much for the important questions and thoughts you shared with me, but above all for the questions and thoughts I was allowed to share with you. Thank you for your distance and your empathy, both of which were so valuable to me. Thank you for your willingness to question me and my assumptions without dismissing them. Thank you for your affirmation and your doubts, for challenging me and for letting things be. Thank you!”

“I would like to thank you very much for the support and help we received from you. I have really met many therapists in my life, but rarely has anyone impressed me so deeply with their strength and their way of working.”

Clients wrote these messages to me after our work together had ended. The originals are in German, translated here.

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Fees & Process

1
You get in touch.
By form, email or phone, whichever is easier for you. If you like, we can have a 15-minute phone call first.
2
We start straight away.
The initial session is already our first working session. You describe what brings you, and we start working on it right away. Often something already becomes clearer. Along the way you notice whether the chemistry is right. Afterwards you decide whether to continue.
3
We keep going.
We usually meet every two to four weeks. In between, you try out new things in everyday life. In each session we look at what has changed and what to work on next. How long we work together is something we decide together.

Fees

	in person	online
Couples session	€18590 min	€12560 min
Individual session	€11060 min	€11060 min

Fees per session, the same for every topic. The first session costs the same as any other.

Payment by bank transfer or PayPal. Free cancellation up to 48 hours before your appointment. Statutory health insurance does not cover the costs.

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Frequently asked questions

“My partner doesn’t want to come.”

Then come on your own. Couple issues can be explored well on your own, too.

“Are we even at that point yet?”

You don’t have to be in crisis first. If something is on your mind, that is reason enough.

“Will you end up taking sides?”

No. I look at what happens between you, not at who is right. You both get the same time to say your piece.

“I don’t know how to talk about it.”

You don’t need to know beforehand. We find the words together – and you decide how much you tell me.

“I’m afraid of being judged.”

I don’t judge what is right or wrong, and I have no fixed idea of how things should be. Together we look at what feels right for you. What you tell me stays confidential.

“How many sessions will we need?”

It varies. Some people continue on their own after four or five sessions with what they have understood. Others want to go deeper, or come back when they need to, to look after their relationship.