Guide
In this guide I write about things people rarely talk about openly: desire and the lack of it, pressure to orgasm, shame, how to talk to each other during sex, and how closeness stays alive in everyday life. Knowing more takes some of the weight off. Perhaps you will recognise yourself in an article and understand a little better what is happening in you or between the two of you.
The articles are no substitute for working with someone in person or for medical advice. If you would like to explore a topic further with me, write to me.
For you alone
- Body psychotherapy
- Can't orgasm
- Changing therapists
- Good sex
- Low libido in men: a taboo you can talk about
- Low libido in women: when desire grows quieter
- Pain during sex: understanding the causes and looking after yourself
- Premature ejaculation: what can lie behind it
- Sex in long-term relationships
- Sex therapy for erection problems
- Sex therapy for low desire
- Sex therapy for pain during sex
- Sex therapy for premature ejaculation
- Sexuality after abuse
- Talking about sex
- Vaginismus: when your body says no to penetration
- What does a sex therapist do? Your first session
For you together
- Communication during sex
- Couples therapy after an affair
- Couples therapy after the first baby
- Faking orgasm
- Female orgasm
- Foreplay
- Helping your partner orgasm
- Mismatched sexual desire
- No desire for sex in a relationship: what may be behind it
- Open relationships
- Queer relationships
- Questions for couples
- Sex after birth: closeness, desire and being a couple with a baby
Exercises to try
All topics A to Z
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- Sex after birth: closeness, desire and being a couple with a babyBody & Sexuality
- Sex in long-term relationshipsDesire & Low Desire
- Sex therapy for erection problemsBody & Sexuality
- Sex therapy for low desireDesire & Low Desire
- Sex therapy for pain during sexBody & Sexuality
- Sex therapy for premature ejaculationBody & Sexuality
- Sexuality after abuseBody & Sexuality