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Understanding relationship crises – redesigning connections

A long-term, fulfilling relationship doesn't happen automatically. What initially seems easy, lively, and natural changes over time. Everyday life takes over, conflicts accumulate, and even small triggers can lead to arguments. What was once a loving exchange suddenly feels strained or distant. Many couples experience exactly this phase. You are not alone.

Many people think couples therapy means we've failed. I say it's a courageous beginning. In my practice, I see how encounters can unfold anew.

My work with couples isn't just about resolving conflicts—it's about identifying their deeper causes. Recurring arguments are often just the visible surface of an emotional pattern operating in the unconscious. Issues like unmet needs, old hurts, or unclear boundaries often play a central role—without being able to be openly addressed. In our collaborative work, I support you in making entrenched dynamics visible, understanding where and how contact with one another was lost, breaking through obstructive communication patterns, and reestablishing genuine dialogue.

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Reasons for couples therapy

 

  • recurring/deadlocked arguments

  • incompatible needs

  • frustration and unfulfilled sexuality

  • jealousy and breach of trust

  • increasing divergence

  • desire to open the relationship

  • decision making - to go or to stay?

 

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My therapeutic approach is body- and emotion-oriented, systemic, and resource-focused. I work with you to regain access to your feelings and needs—and to communicate them in a way that creates connection rather than defensiveness.

 

This creates space, step by step, for a new way of meeting one another—honest, approachable, and on equal terms. Because relationship work doesn't just mean "fixing" something, but rather getting closer to yourself and the other person.

Intimacy begins with genuine interest.

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