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Desire & Low Desire

When desire stays away, there is a reason, and it can be looked at. I write about desire in everyday life, about uneven desire in couples and about what encourages or slows down arousal.

Good sexGood sex is sex that brings you joy and harms no one.
Low libido in men: a taboo you can talk aboutMen also go through phases when they don’t want sex.
Low libido in women: when desire grows quieterWhen your desire as a woman grows quieter, there are almost always several reasons.
Mismatched sexual desireOne of you wants more sex, the other less.
No desire for sex in a relationship: what may be behind itHaving no desire for sex happens at some point in almost every long relationship.
Questions for couplesFor many couples, talking about sex is harder than having it.
Sex in long-term relationshipsWhen sex in a long-term relationship becomes routine, it often starts to feel like a duty: something you just do.
Sex therapy for low desireYour desire is gone, and you wonder what is wrong with you.