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How tense you are and how you breathe shape how sex feels. Here you can read about orgasm and arousal, and also about pain during sex. If symptoms persist, a medical check-up is part of it.

Can't orgasmIf you are a woman who can’t orgasm during sex and you put yourself under pressure because of it, take orgasm out of the centre for a while.
Communication during sexCommunication during sex works with words and without them: you can say what you want, or you can show it.
Faking orgasmFaking an orgasm is usually a response to pressure: the orgasm is supposed to happen, and soon.
Female orgasmThe female orgasm during sex depends heavily on how a woman is stimulated – not on whether “everything is going right”.
ForeplayForeplay is already sex, not just what happens before the “real” sex.
Helping your partner orgasmIf you want to help a woman orgasm, what you need most is slowness and asking.
Pain during sex: understanding the causes and looking after yourselfPain during sex is common, and still it is nothing you have to put up with.
Premature ejaculation: what can lie behind itIf you come sooner than you want to during sex, you are not alone.
Sex after birth: closeness, desire and being a couple with a babyWhen sex after birth becomes a topic again varies a great deal from couple to couple.
Sex therapy for erection problemsYou want sex, and still your erection fades.
Sex therapy for pain during sexSex hurts, and many people carry on anyway.
Sex therapy for premature ejaculationYou ejaculate sooner than you would like, and with every time the pressure grows.
Sexuality after abuseSexual abuse can shape how someone experiences closeness and sex for years afterwards.
Vaginismus: when your body says no to penetrationVaginismus means that the muscles at the vaginal opening contract as soon as something is meant to enter, and you can’t control it.